What if stuff could happen, and instead of suffering for a long time, you could turn around on a dime?
It would free up your time, your emotions, your body to do things that, instead are useful, pleasurable, or both.
In the 'Turn around on a dime' I teach a method I use to accomplish just that.
You can do it... but you need to learn how to do it.
And, unfortunately, you need to get out of your one-track pony mode, where you see everything from your own vantage point.